Joan Silber on “Safety”—and the Enduring Power of Friendship
Author Joan Silber Explores History, Friendship, and the Illusion of Safety in New Work
Joan Silber, celebrated for her intricate narratives and insightful character studies, delves into the complexities of displacement, identity, and the enduring power of friendship in her latest short story, “Safety,” published in The New Yorker. The story, and her forthcoming novel, Mercy, showcase Silber’s recurring fascination with the bonds between people navigating a world often defined by political upheaval and personal loss. But “Safety” didn’t begin with characters or plot, Silber reveals; it began with a historical echo.
From Uzbekistan’s Past to a New York Story
Silber’s inspiration struck during research prior to a trip to Uzbekistan last spring. She learned of the mass evacuations ordered by Joseph Stalin during World War II, when millions of Soviet citizens were forcibly relocated, many to Uzbekistan. The stories of families torn apart at train stations, the sheer scale of human displacement, resonated deeply. “Thinking of a lost small child, I calculated the age she would need to be for the story to be contemporary,” Silber explained in a recent interview. “I brought her to New York…and gave her a family I could describe.”
This historical grounding became the seed for “Safety,” which follows the diverging and converging lives of two childhood friends, Nicole and Yasmina. Yasmina’s family history is rooted in Uzbekistan, a nation at the crossroads of the Silk Road and a site of complex historical migrations. Silber’s own visit to Tashkent, Uzbekistan’s capital, and her encounter with a statue commemorating families who adopted children during the war, further solidified the story’s thematic core. The statue depicted a blacksmith, his wife, and the children they took in during the wartime upheaval – a powerful image of resilience and unexpected connection.
Silber also drew inspiration from a 2022 teaching residency in Bangladesh, where she taught fiction writing at the Hermitage Residency. This experience informed the character of Abdul, Yasmina’s partner, and added another layer of cultural nuance to the narrative. The inclusion of both Uzbekistan and Bangladesh wasn’t arbitrary; both countries represent histories shaped by displacement, migration, and the search for stability.
Comedy as a Counterpoint to Darkness
A striking element of “Safety” is the profession Silber assigned to Yasmina and Abdul: comedians. This choice, she says, wasn’t initially integral to the plot but evolved organically. “I was so happy when I invented this,” Silber noted, referencing a local comedy night she frequents on New York’s Lower East Side. “At first, I made Yasmina and Abdul comedians just as a way for the two friends to run into each other again…But I also knew that something darker was coming in the narrative, and this provided a very unsentimental form of preparation and contrast.”
The use of comedy serves as a poignant counterpoint to the story’s heavier themes. It highlights the human need for levity even in the face of adversity, and the ways in which humor can be both a coping mechanism and a form of resistance. It also underscores the precariousness of public performance, particularly for artists whose work touches on sensitive political or social issues. According to a Reporters Without Borders report, 2023 saw a record number of journalists and media workers imprisoned globally, demonstrating the increasing risks associated with speaking truth to power – a risk that extends to comedians and satirists as well.
Narrative Distance and the Weight of Witnessing
Silber made a deliberate choice to tell “Safety” from the perspective of Nicole, rather than Yasmina, whose life experiences are central to the story’s unfolding drama. This narrative distance, she explains, stemmed from a desire to avoid appropriating a culture she doesn’t belong to. “I’m not Uzbek, and I didn’t feel comfortable wielding Yasmina’s knowledge,” she said.
However, the narrative remove also serves a broader purpose. It mirrors the feeling of being simultaneously connected to and detached from the world’s suffering – a sentiment Silber describes as her “actual feeling right now.” “Every day unspeakable things go on around me, and I go on with my ordinary, pleasant life,” she observes. This sense of dissonance is a key theme in “Safety,” and the narrative structure reinforces it, forcing the reader to confront their own position as observers of global events.
The Enduring Power of Friendship in a Precarious World
Silber’s work consistently returns to the theme of friendship, a connection she finds particularly compelling. “Romantic love might have more inherent drama, but friendship has its tricky continuities and its loyalties in the face of a difficult and dangerous world,” she argues. In “Safety,” and in her new novel, Mercy, friendship is presented not as a simple source of comfort, but as a complex and resilient force that can withstand the pressures of history and circumstance.
The title, “Safety,” is itself imbued with irony. Silber points to the ways in which the pursuit of safety – whether through national security measures, forced evacuations, or personal choices – often comes at a cost. As of 2023, the UNHCR estimates that there are 114 million people forcibly displaced worldwide, a staggering figure that underscores the fragility of safety and the enduring human cost of conflict and persecution. Silber’s story doesn’t offer easy answers, but it does offer a powerful meditation on the search for meaning and connection in a world defined by uncertainty.
Ultimately, “Safety” is a story about the enduring human need for belonging, the weight of history, and the quiet resilience of friendship. It’s a reminder that even in the face of profound loss and political turmoil, the bonds we forge with others can offer a measure of solace and a glimmer of hope.